when we fall in LOVE...do we seriously have to give up EVERYTHING in life...thats what i feel rite now...i already gave my all in in this RELATIONSHIP...what is making it so HARD to make it work....I've tried approaching this matter from SEVERAL directions....BUT...WHY DO I STILL BARE THE PAIN!!!!!WHY?!WHY?! ...is it really my fault to show that i care....is it really my fault to show that im trying to make this relationship work???IS IT A WRONG THING TO DO....A WRONG STEP TO TAKE???WHY is it so hard to maintain a relationship....im beginning to doubt myself.... in EVERYWAY.....
~am i NOT suppose to FALL IN LOVE....
~am i the RIGHT ONE for her????
~am i REALLY rushing myself in this relationship
~am i the WORST bf in the whole of this UNIVERSE..
im now questioning myself....maybe its all true... or maybe its a thought that is CONSTANTLY playing in my mind.... :(
hey, before that.. do you think you really gave up EVERYTHING for the person you love? Cus' it's true that love kind of needs some sacrifices. But..what you sacrificed now are just minor ones. There's more to come. And I tell you, ALOT. Falling in love is always easy, but to continue loving it needs a lot of patience. In future, you and your partner still need to gave up certain things. It will never stop cus' new problems will keep coming. At the same time, the feeling of insecure and fears would come too. It depends on you both whether you can always go through it together or not. If you can't stand these simple matters now, how can you be prepared for more serious matters in the future? Think about it. And no, you're not the worst bf in the whole universe cus' you really, truly love her. And if you both are really serious, learn more to appreciate each others and kill those ego and sometimes.. if you really claimed that you love her, you really have to sacrificed more..without regretting it of course. Cus that's love. It's not about hoping, but more about giving. And yes, if the love you gave is really pure, I'm sure one day you'll gain the happiness after all of the sacrifices you have made. Cus' remember, God is not that cruel to make you suffer. ;)
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