mentality..

Hey guys.... being in uni for almost a month thinking that im able to get away from all of the past nonsense is not really working... like they use to say.... the past will always come and haunt you... hehe... anyway i was like my usual self trying to make friends with everyone but yet there are some people who would just wont sit quietly.... they just would have the slightest intention to ruin your day.... that was how my life went around in uni... funny eh...in short....ALL morons are the SAME!!! XP

RELATIONSHIPS..

HEY...dear readers....i need your opinion..

when we fall in LOVE...do we seriously have to give up EVERYTHING in life...thats what i feel rite now...i already gave my all in in this RELATIONSHIP...what is making it so HARD to make it work....I've tried approaching this matter from SEVERAL directions....BUT...WHY DO I STILL BARE THE PAIN!!!!!WHY?!WHY?! ...is it really my fault to show that i care....is it really my fault to show that im trying to make this relationship work???IS IT A WRONG THING TO DO....A WRONG STEP TO TAKE???WHY is it so hard to maintain a relationship....im beginning to doubt myself.... in EVERYWAY.....

~am i NOT suppose to FALL IN LOVE....

~am i the RIGHT ONE for her????

~am i REALLY rushing myself in this relationship

~am i the WORST bf in the whole of this UNIVERSE..

im now questioning myself....maybe its all true... or maybe its a thought that is CONSTANTLY playing in my mind.... :(

C.R.E.A.T.I.O.N....

~DEAR BLOGGERS...

 i do not know whether is it me or do you people fell the same way.... i can be reall stressed outat things but the only thing that can calm me down...is when i look at unique flowers..its just that flowers have this special ability to either make you feel relaxed or just make our hearts melt... i guess that this is one of GOD great creation??? well this are a few type of flowers i found to be lovely...(look at it carefully and donate an opinion)....

O.P.E.N.M.I.N.D.E.D.N.E.S.S....

Dear Fellow Bloggers....i was looking thru the yearbooks that were published during my schooling years and i was thinking back of those days(yes i know....im old...) but one thing struck me was... the form sixes..

~As years passed...i observed ...those days in 2001(i think.) the fellow form sixes were so openminded that the would hug each other when they saaw each other...and the lower forms wouldn't dare say a thing and they accepted it for a fact....Nowadays, if a guy were to hug another person...it would have been a sin....why do these people have such a  mind set as if they were uneducated..?? (honestly speaking...it's a shame) We are moving towards a more divercified era and a more civilised era (but due to some "problems").. we aint moving anywhere....you figure that out...tell me... is it fair for these "people" who have less education and experience to act like hulligans and judge other people...??? 

BOOK SMART OR STREET SMART??

this i want to hear your say....

~Parent always tell thir children to study hard so that they will have a brighter and wealthier future.... they always say this without actually caring for the childs feelings...

well we respect their decisions because we care for them and dont want to hurt their feelings....but why should we suffer?? shouldnt we be thinking for the benefits of our ownself sometimes??you see this this how life is unfair...

Okay okay... back to the topic...parents often say that we wont get far without any qualifications.... which is often a true fact.... that only work  back then in the sixties....now in this new era...who gives a damn about qualification...some people who are graduates are still JOBLESS!!!! but those who work hard from the beginning without any qulaification HAVE a job and is excelling faster...Unfair huh....dun be suprise that due to the practicality of studies....we tend to do thing STEP by STEP.... whereas those with nothing by experience know a FASTER way of climbing a corporate ladder, now you see where im heading with this... this topic hit me when i was watching this movie " SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE"....He was a NOBODY.. but won A MILLION....where as those who had higher level of education won NOTHING....... let me hear wat you have to say... now the MILLION dollar question is up to you to answer.... to study or not to study.... 

CHOICES..

~choices....have you ever wondered why choices are there for us to make in every step of life...have you ever often feel that you get bored or even sometimes sick of making silly choices that we might regret...

well there are to 2 ways in seeing this scenario...one way is for us to cry over the stupid decisions that have been made and the ohter is to learn from it and be a better person.....

but....have you what if we accidentally made the same wrong choices twice??? we suffer from our stupidity twice??? well ive seen some people go thru this...and its often hillarious...hehehhe

well tell me wat you think bout it...

T.R.U.S.T.

~TRUST....

Is it hard to earn...people always say that there are a few things in earth that we should earn...Love,respect, and TRUST....

it just hit me that people pretend to be someone they are not so that they would look cool....but isn't that defeating the purpose of BEING WHO YOU ARE?

but there are people people who have already earned trust from their loved one and abuse the trust given to them.... or in some scenarios.... people who you trust don't trust you....believe me... i've seen these people and is not nice of them to do so.....doing that not only will hurt the ones you love (which in my case are those who trusted you)... but it will also or might even lead to more srious things like divorce,breaking all ties that they have.....and worst of the lot....KILLING one another..

TRUST...a simple word that leads to disasterous things!!!beware of how you use it......when abused...theres a price to pay!

~wat say you??!!